hmmm... two rare bloggers suddenly blogging... and on matters of the heart... before i go on any further, it's really tiring to manage human relationships at times... want to talk about smth which i wrote before... on the ppl who read my blog... i believe i have a new reader of my blog... very inquisitive person... hope i dun get bugged by the person asking me about the things in my blog... (not talking about u lei cube... talking about some one else)... certain things are only meant to be seen/heard/read by certain ppl... so only the people tt i intend my posts for will understand wat i'm talking about... although most of the time my posts are meant for everyone...

to brandon: "feelings can be nurtured over a period of time"... i haven really experienced tt before... but i can tell u one thing... there's also a saying "time will make blend everything"...

have been having conversations with diff ppl lately... a common sentiment struck me... they had relationships tt did not work out and they were wondering if they would go into another relationship (if at all) soon... it's the transition between the first relationship to the next... perhaps it's a fear tt the next relationship would not work out well too and tt they are afraid to be hurt... wat then, if it was love at first sight and a deeply rooted liking for the person is formed, only for the relationship to not work out? i cannot envision how feelings can be nurtured over a priod of time, but i hope it will happen to me...

similar things happening to both of my friends... luckily, it did not happen to me... suddenly brought back to my thought on whether ppl of the opposite sex can really just be gd friends... v gd friends i mean...

the best tt i can do is to provide advice... wat happens next is really dependent only on those persons involved...